Here’s the recipe for getting anything accomplished:
The best example of this is a baby learning to walk.
First, he has complete faith that it will happen—“everyone around me is walking, I’m sure I can too!” It never occurs to him that he can’t.
Next comes tons of trial and error. No beating himself up for any of the failures. Just getting back up...
There are 9 weeks between now and the New Year.
We call these weeks The Bermuda Triangle of Weight Gain—Halloween through Thanksgiving then onto Christmas and New Year’s.
Starts with candy and ends with champagne, with lots of pies in between.
If we’re not careful, we can go unconscious and wake up 9 weeks later having gained pounds and pounds with an urgent need for a weight loss resolution.
Halloween’s just a week away.
[Hopefully you haven’t bought your candy yet –see The Best Day to Buy Halloween Candy].
The phrase, “Don’t Invite the Enemy In” always comes to mind around this time of year.
Pre-Halloween it’s about the Costco-sized bags of candy that haunt you from inside the pantry until you inevitably give in.
One mean sugar high and thousands of calories (literally) later, regret and shock...
Louise Hay, one of my favorite teachers, is a stickler for language. She teaches that thoughts (language in your mind) impact your environment.
Positively worded thoughts create positive feelings and negatively worded thoughts create negative ones.
Try it out for yourself:
How does it feel when you say, “I’m killing two birds with one stone” vs “I’m getting a lot done efficiently”
I’m terrible at meditation.
I’ve been doing it every morning for almost a full year and yet . . .
I haven’t reach enlightenment.
I don’t feel blissful after my sessions.
I’m missing those epiphanies that come with perfect stillness.
And you couldn’t pay me to stop.
Most mornings I start my Headspace timer and settle in. I count my breaths, as I was taught, 1 on the in breath and 2 on the out . . . all the way to 10...
It’s easy to measure success in weight loss—it’s measured in pounds lost.
Measuring Maintenance is a different story.
It’s only in retrospect, really. It’s measured in time—6, 12, 24 months at the same desired weight.
But on a daily basis, Maintenance is measured by the absence of gaining (or losing).
Measuring the absence of something doesn’t always feel satisfying.
It’s like measuring...
Are you a once a week weigh-er or an every day weigh-er?
I hope you’re at least one or the other.
Multiple studies show that regular weighing increases your chances for success with both losing and maintaining weight.
I recommend once a week if you’re in weight loss mode.
It can be a fragile time and you’re more apt to see the results you crave if you give your body a little time.
For maintenance mode it can remain once a...
Last week we talked about the cost of food Joy, out of proportion desire and the benefits of True Joy (read all about it here).
Today we start getting you that True Joy.
True Joy is the key to losing weight and keeping it off.
If the only joy you have in your life is food, then losing weight is impossible.
Taking away your only pleasure leaves you with despair and deprivation.
That’s why diets feel terrible. It’s...
How much Joy should food bring you?
On the one hand, in this day and age, each bite can be more amazing than the next. What’s the purpose of eating if it doesn’t bring you joy?
Well, fueling your body is the answer to that one.
Back in the day, food needed to be enticing to get us out of the cave and looking for fuel. Fat tastes good, so we’d get fatty meats in us. Berries taste good so we’d gather some...
How much water do you drink in a day?
If you answered “not enough” or you’re not sure, read on.
Here are 2 compelling reasons to drink more water and 7 proven benefits . . .
1. WATER CAN MAKE YOU LOSE WEIGHT
First, our bodies can confuse the feelings of hunger, thirst and fatigue.
Since there are more calories in food than water assume the feeling is thirst and drink water first.
This strategy has been proven to help you lose...